Sunday, August 14, 2011

what was it!!!!!!!!!

Love,live and laugh, there is always some relationship between these three words,if u consider one as constant ,you are left to choose either one of them.You can't choose both of them.And its the reality of the life. We are driven by the nature,which coincidentally makes us lead towards,the unsupervised or say, the places where exploring is possible,because the mystery of life is quite challenging.
Its the life who is the best teacher you can ever have.It teaches you best when you are in scar,it makes you more confident towards the ways people can treat you and vice -versa. You can have the ability to face hurdles and in the environment you can get with.
My experience with life has been quite confusing ,because more the failure i got more i leaned towards the possibility of its success and more strong i tried to be in the next, more i lost it .
Life has become more like a game for me where either you win or you loose, you should have the ability take it in a positive way either it be the failure or the success.Some time people around you may make fun on your loss ,or may take credit for your success ,its all depends on you how you take it and how you make it.
Its said some where that dreams are our part of our dark conses where more deeper you go higher is the probability you come out with no end, i.e you are left with no end results. And i think this dreams only make people more leaned towards assuming some thing in real thus by dreaming in day eyes open,to have a feel of having an end,but do they ever think that its realization once failed ,how badly affects the human heart. Its generally associated with men psychology because they are one who go for day dreaming or say they actually don't wanna come from their dream world. I guess you have to over come with this thought and should realize that life is no longer a plant's seed where once you plant it,and start hoping for the fruits without getting it mature,and then getting ripped. You need to have patience and the ability to give a passage for its growth. Expectation is good thing but over expectation will lead to either isolation or create a black space in the heart. And at the end you are left with broken heart showing no ray of hope.
I think it should be realized as soon as possible so as to make it more happening and showing a sign of identification.
I have seen many of mine dreams getting crushed within no time delay,its not because i didn't give it a time or i don't have patience it was all the same ,i.e over expectation.
Though loosing one game or so many game does not make me weak ,rather i can count those as beautiful experience of my life,where at least i tried to see a dream though it never got its end, at least i tried,and thus i don't have any regrets for that neither i have to repent it.
There is a saying " ye dunia Ulfat me jia kartin hai jine do, humen hasana mubarak hai,koi rota hai rone do,".
After all these all are mine beautiful experince where though i din't get any thing as mine but i got so many moments which are quite enough for going for a next step in life. I may not have got so many to cherish but who so ever i have they have been an important part played in my life's role play and i can never forget them.
Yet i love them,live with them and try to laugh.......

Ek shayari ho jaye.....
" Tamanayo se humne unko chah ke ,ek aasiyana bnaya chhota sa,
Samay ki aandhi kuchh aaisi aayi, vo sapne sare tut gye,
humne fir kosis ki unke sapno ko jine ki,Ek nya aasiyana bnane ki,
Hume kya pta tha,unhe mahlo me rahne ki aadaat thi,hum fir rah gye dil leke apna chhota sa"


3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Very True Rastogi...wat u've written is part of most of the peoples life..its just tht sum realize n sum dont...anywez Gud Job my friend, keep them coming....Be positive

priyanka said...

vry true dear,,,,this is th fact.. some or the other day evrybody goes through this phase of lyf.... circumtances are not alwayz under our control..but yaa we can control our own thoughts nd actions....u knw ,, nobody has an easy life..but wat can we do abt that??
we must have complete confidence nd preservence in ourselves...never try to slove all of life's problem at once....but do believe there is no sadness that can't be reversed...
so alwayz live in the moment.. learn from your experiences....try to be happy watevr th situation may be...... just be a positive thinker....see the invisible..feel the intangiable..nd achieve the impossible..!!

priyanka said...

vry true dear,,,,this is th fact.. some or the other day evrybody goes through this phase of lyf.... circumtances are not alwayz under our control..but yaa we can control our own thoughts nd actions....u knw ,, nobody has an easy life..but wat can we do abt that??
we must have complete confidence nd preservence in ourselves...never try to slove all of life's problem at once....but do believe there is no sadness that can't be reversed...
so alwayz live in the moment.. learn from your experiences....try to be happy watevr th situation may be...... just be a positive thinker....see the invisible..feel the intangiable..nd achieve the impossible..!!