leads to nowhere..............

Lots of my pals says, i m in love or hv crush on someone but do they ever tried to know what actually driven them to hv crush on someone.I too hv been in to such state of emotions for times ,and now i realized that,What we think is just the imaginations of our thoughts of loneliness .Attaching with someone or being related to someone with his thought process is difficult ,we perceive to someone the way we want ,but we never take the courage or the credit to know that person with his thought process. In today's world of fantasy and fast moving life we keep changing our imaginations form good to bad,thus leading to nowhere or reaching to the same state from where we started our journey for finding someone special or important.Being attached with some one either with emotions or with togetherness can make u feel the importance of each other,but do they long last or do they have that much of courage to say no to the things we are not in accordance with.BUT do this emotions for some one are formed in short time , definitely not. Its some thing which has many to take with the formations of faith and trust.Faith and trust are something which u make on someone for a long time,but if once its broken ,it can never be built again.Then indirectly u loose ur self respect from the both sides.Its nice to be approachable,but till the extent u r not reachable by everyone ,becoz once u start being it,u r guided by Emotions,Expectations and Commitments,which are like a virus,which u can't remove ,and at the end of the day u r just a looser becoz u hv nothing to cherish for.

Its good to be loved by everyone one ,but intention of that love must be defined becoz once u start co-ordinating with it u start loosing yourself .Its something like a computer ,where once u r attacked by a virus its better to stay away from it ,rather trying to delete it everything nd ending to the system crash.
From my past experience i learnt that never be dependent of other thought process becoz it may lead to nowhere ,or somewhere u never wanted to.Being independent and to make others dependent on u is also something a voidable norms,so its always better to mind ur own business then to cater for someone else.

One more thing i learnt that finding true love is very difficult ,as it has just become the fantasy of one own self.U like someone means u want something from that person ,it may be anything,and if u fail making it possible then u r left out either by anyone of the partner. True love is something which u cant make it tangible,its the inner most power which governs,thus u never expect anything in return.
If some one says i love that girl very much,it means he is lying ,its just the attachment what he wants to get from her /him.
True love in this world has now been replaced by give and take relationship,which is not the real love its just the exchange of emotions of each other without caring for its consequences ,which at the end leads to pain.................